It's your choice to give these situations with men the meaning you want.
If you're criticizing yourself because a guy didn't pick up the phone and call you, you’ll end up feeling more negative and overly-attached the next time you get on the phone and try to have a casual conversation with him, or another man.
Or maybe he sensed a bit of desperation ("You're going to call me, right? Dating advice: Communicating either anxiousness or desperation early on before a man knows you is a sure attraction-killer. Dating advice: None of these reasons men don’t call back have anything to do with who you are as a woman.
You may have these impulses, but I advise my dating coaching clients not to call. You see in business, being direct is often the best policy.
As a dating coach for women over 40, I’ve noticed a trend emerging in the last 10 years. With the work place equality we enjoy today and so many women in power jobs, there is a new belief that the communication style that works in business is appropriate for dating as well. Just say what needs to be said to be very clear and get things done.
What’s not readily available is always more attractive – this is the plain and simple truth about attraction.3. Men like the chase and when you have a rich, full life and leave the calling to him, your appeal goes up.4.
Don’t call him because he might misinterpret this as desperation. Don’t call him because he might see you as invading his privacy.