It should be short, concise and have questions, so she can have the opportunity to respond.Don’t try and be funny I’ve seen SO MANY messages from my female friends of guys trying to be sarcastic or use humor in their messages, but since their idiot cavemen it comes off as rude, cynical or awkward.Typically, it’s something complementary on something she has mentioned as a passion, interest or career. ” Objective 2: Show we have similar interest/things in common Okay, you’ve proven you’ve read her profile, now you need to demonstrate you actually have things in common.Mentioning shared interest helps create the buy in, she needs to relate to you. I once dressed up as Luke Skywalker for 6 months straight, prior to the release of the Star Wars: Episode III Revenge of the Sith!
So, as you can see, it doesn’t really have the same ring, or appeal to someone searching on how to write a good first message for online dating.
” Objective 3: Start a conversation The goal is for her to respond back to you right?
Well in order for that to happen, you have to ask her questions.
OR do you think these guys just don’t give a fuck and actually want to attract the type of woman that also doesn’t give a fuck that they didn’t actually read your profile? Like next time a guy sends you a super generic message on online dating you respond with nothing else except a link to this post, letting them know, that you know, his message was a piece shit.
So now I’m going to share with you how I craft my messages that I send on online dating.