Having said that, I really like guys to have a bit of meat of them (not fat) but I don't like really skinny either. They could be the greatest friend ever, but I wouldn't date him.I know that I'm not in the greatest shape either, but I'm working on it.Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I'm turned off by fat men (more than 40 lbs overweight) for the same reason "shuts the attraction off" - obesity is a sign that something's wrong in his life and he's not dealing with it. Saturday, June 21, 2008, PM I LOVE a well rounded chubby man!Not huge and blubbery with monster thighs that rub together when he walks.
Not like scary bodybuilder muscles, but great definition and strong arms/back.
There's a pretty popular thread going on about whether men are attracted to fat women.
I put it to you this way: Are Women Attracted to Fat Men? Do we like "fat" men Well let me start off by saying I'm 5' 4" and 112 pounds and have been told I'm very attractive.
I would LOVE someone to join me on an hour run on the weekend. He is aware that he doesn't look or feel great, but he's not very self-motivated, so he's struggling to make changes.
I can't help him that much either because he is intimidated by my fitness level and also HATES doing anything just for the sake of exercise.