My dear I feel bad for you butbi honestly believe that if your bf wants a threesome he doesn't love you. My hubby enjoys sharing me and we love each other very much. I would say that the fact the OP's bf seems to be putting pressure on her shows lack of respect x Without reading any replies first ill give you my own thoughts. End of the day if he thinks you're not good enough then he can leave. On the other hand, if it was another guy she wanted, I'd rip his head off in a heartbeat. But with another man and him, tell him your mate Dave from work is pretty sexy and you'd love to give him some special trouser kiss's.
There is no love if you are ready to share your partner with someone else. Now, wanting a threesome doesn't mean he doesn't fancy you or love you. I guarantee he won't like it, que the argument about how it's ok for him and another woman but not you.... You need to reconsider your relationship status if you are against it. Talk about what you want to happen and what each person can and can't do.
X Never do anything in the bedroom (stairs/swimming pool/kitchen table/etc) you're not comfortable with. We all have our boundaries and it can be fun and enlightening experimenting every so often, but if you don't wish to indulge this particular fantasy of his then don't.
If he persists with his demands, tell him yes as you've always fancied his mate "Gary" and would love to be entertained by both your boyfriend and him...
He's being so selfish, don't do it just to please him.
And don't worry about your body he will still be attracted to you xxxx Sent from my i Phone using Netmums mobile app I had a threesome a few weeks ago and the lady is stunning!
Dont get upset Hun, tell him he either accepts that he has you and only you or he slings his hook and seeks his sexual fantasies elsewhere!
Don't be upset..angry that he is making you feel this awful!!
You are worth more than that, unless it is something you want to do don't do it it will cause more problems that it will solve xx My dear I feel bad for you butbi honestly believe that if your bf wants a threesome he doesn't love you.Sometimes I wish I was neighbours with lots of you lovely women who have ignorant other half's so I could give them a kick up the backside for you.A relationship is about mutual respect and understanding.It also upsets me that I'm obviously not enough for him sexually and this probably is because I'm pretty ugly. Stick to your guns xxx I agree with a pp, your guy sounds like he just wants to sleep with other women and have your approval.You need to tell him firmly this will never happen, you do not want it, and if he mentions it again (knowing its upsetting you) you will have to reconsider your relationship as he is not respecting you at all. Ultimately I would be distraught to see my wife's face while I was having sex with another woman, even if she was involved. But if your BF is deadly serious all you need to do is AGREE to have one.