We live in a superficial world where we only see the highlight of people's lives on social media: these selected pictures of happy, sexy people make us feel more insecure about ourselves and the world around us.
He is an online dating expert, dating coach and has over 11 years of experience in the industry.
Dating expert Ian Isherwood says no and gives five reasons why: We are all different, and our hearts should be free to pursue whoever we wish.
But it does become an issue when the only reason the young men are pursuing these older women is because of money, gifts and financial security.
You might have heard about the club in Lavington, called the Nairobi Cougar Lounge, which hit the headlines earlier this year, for all the wrong reasons.
This club in question was set up for sugar mummies to find young men and pay KSh 15,000 for sex, a huge amount of money, particularly for many unemployed young men. Mark Twain once said: “Age is an issue of mind over matter.